It's all good, just a matter of preference, although I think I have an advantage in judging styles as I didn't grow up in the hotbeds of any.
NY has great food, but BBQ is not on the list. For New Yorkers, BBQ is grilling steaks, hamburgers and hot dogs in the backyard. Sloppy Joes were called BBQ Beef on a Bun. And the closest thing to actual BBQ flavor were BBQ potato chips. So that tells you what you need to know about BBQ as a NY tradition.
I didn't grow up eating only one style, and none of the styles engenders any pride of region in me. I understand how it can in others, but that wasn't part of my culture growing up.
As I said, I like them all, but I like spicy food and so have a preference for spicy vs sweet BBQ.
I like the flavor of Eastern style which I don't suppose is either hot or sweet, but you have to admit Bi-Po it makes for an ugly plate. A little dollop of horrid NC cole slaw sure doesn't add any pop to the platter.
We're thinking about moving back East (more likely SC than NC - I may be through with the latter since it went for Obama in 2008. If it does it again in 2012, I will be for sure.) and if so it will be back to BBQ where pork is king. I'll have to bring some briscuit with me. Bet I could get a Texas BBQ joint making money in Charlotte, but the way Charlotte has been infested with Northerners you can probably find BBQ Beef on a Bun there now too.