please help me

I'm confused, you call yourself "Coolhunk"?.

But If you're a Coolhunk then you shouldn't need to be a wanker so?.

every addict is not a wanker!!!!!! i have gf..i party a lot...but m addicted to porn...thats the main prob... had i been a nerd ...sitting lonely in my room..then its wouldn't have been a worry..but with my lavish life style..i haven't been able to give up porn.... so guys please suggest HELP

How old are you/ why are you a virgin?

I'm wondering if that's the answer -- that you are for some reason trying to stay sexually chaste, and so you then use porn as an outlet. Which would make sense.

Unless you're very young or have some important reason you need to stay a virgin (not sure what that would be), I'd suggest going ahead and losing your virginity.

My apologies, but you sound like a bit of a d****bag. 'lavish life style'?

At any rate, if this is serious then get some monitoring software and install it on your PC. If you use a phone to view porn then there are programs you can get that do the same thing. Have the monitoring results go to your Girlfriend or some other respected mentor (read: NOT the people you go party with but someone who's opinion of you matters and who will call you out on your bullsh**).

If you're serious about wanting to stop, bite the bullet and get the help you need.

OK..Let's get this straight. Which is it?

its i HAD A GF

thanks friends...i am trying to stop my pornadiction by locking my PC for some days.. thanks friends

Ineffectual. You need someone to stand on your groin when you feel the urge. If you had the willpower to not go to the PC and look you'd already not be going to the PC and looking. Locking it will do nothing, especially if you have the password to unlock it.

In short, it will fail. So might as well not bother.

wat should i do...please suggest a way.. i will surely follow it!!! will having sex help?

I'd venture "yes." But, again, why are you currently a virgin?

thats because i want to be loyal to my wife....to prove that no 1 holds more imp in my life than she!!!!!

So, you will have no experience at all with real life sex between a man and a woman, but lots of time logged watching unreal sex, when you first have sex with your wife. What a treat for her.

treat for her..u mean to say...i will regret not having sex earlier...is it better to lose virginity before marriage?

I think what ossobuco was implying is that your primary education and connection with sex is the farce that is porn which in no way reflects real life. And your wife will be the one that bears the brunt of that mis-education.

Yes, that is what I mean. I think it is a good thing for a man to know how to give a woman pleasure, and for the woman to know how to give a man pleasure, and many first timers are pretty clueless about that. I sardonically think some never learn and that that can be a huge marriage problem. Contrary to common understanding, porn viewing may not be any kind of education in, mmm, useful sexual knowledge.

Many will no doubt disagree with me, which is fine. I presume you value virginity for religious reasons, though I might be guessing wrong. I don't want to change your beliefs about that, or the wife you don't know yet's beliefs. I, at my age, find virginity-keeping for loyalty to a future wife as plain silly at 25, especially compensating for it with porn. I'm not enthused about female virginity at twenty five either. Sex is part of real life.

On the other hand, I do see the point of caring about the people you have sex with - I understand that and don't think it's silly.

We are a world wide website here and people's views will be different because of our cultures.

inspired by your thoughts..i will try to lose my virginity as soon as possible......
wat do u suggest I do...go for random sex..as in parties i go..or pay for good sex!!!!