SIGH-I have never been with a woman. If I knew the answers to my questions I wouldn't ask them.
I'm not going to go up to a woman I don't know and embarass myself.
knowing the answers to your questions is no guarantee that you won't embarrass yourself, but the embarrassment in itself is a learning process
if you read a book about riding a bike, you can't expect to be able to just hop on a bike and rise it, you have to practice, and some of that practice involves falling down