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Who's got some friendly advice about meeting and approaching Asian women?

 
 
Reply Wed 16 Feb, 2011 09:25 pm
I like Asian women. I would like to meet some. I'd like to know what advice can you give me other than being myself?

I would like to meet some who are Christians.

If the Lord shows a woman who's to be my wife who happens to be Asian that's the woman I'm going to marry.

Would my future wife like it if I followed traditional Asian marriage customs? I'm willing to do that if that will make her happy.
 
Butrflynet
 
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Reply Wed 16 Feb, 2011 09:31 pm
@JGoldman10,
Get out from in front of the computer screen and go to some public places where you have more of an opportunity to meet people.
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ossobuco
 
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Reply Wed 16 Feb, 2011 09:32 pm
@JGoldman10,
God help her.
JGoldman10
 
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Reply Wed 16 Feb, 2011 09:34 pm
I like Chinese women.
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JGoldman10
 
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Reply Wed 16 Feb, 2011 11:08 pm
@ossobuco,
What about language? Would learning any impress them?
Green Witch
 
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Reply Wed 16 Feb, 2011 11:13 pm
@JGoldman10,
I think in your case it might be a liability. Just smile a lot.
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ossobuco
 
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Reply Wed 16 Feb, 2011 11:18 pm
@JGoldman10,
I'm an american woman who has known a lot of asian women who live in Los Angeles. I doubt years of studying would help. Plus, many speak english and would shut you down.

Well, hey, there is Wilso - ask him.
JGoldman10
 
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Reply Wed 16 Feb, 2011 11:27 pm
@ossobuco,
Why would they shut me down? I'm a gentleman and a Christian.
JGoldman10
 
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Reply Wed 16 Feb, 2011 11:37 pm
@ossobuco,
I'm not going to go up to an Asian woman and talk about her skin color. Neutral
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ossobuco
 
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Reply Wed 16 Feb, 2011 11:39 pm
@JGoldman10,
You are a gentleman?
Tell us about it.

You are a christian,
tell us more.
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JGoldman10
 
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Reply Wed 16 Feb, 2011 11:52 pm
@ossobuco,
When I meet some Chinese girls I find talking about language to be a good icebreaker. I'm interested in learning Chinese anyway.
Smileyrius
 
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Reply Thu 17 Feb, 2011 03:44 am
@JGoldman10,
tell her you found a phrase and you were unsure what it meant,

lei ho lang lui

She will love you long time.
JGoldman10
 
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Reply Thu 17 Feb, 2011 04:26 am
@Smileyrius,
That's not something vulgar, is it?
Francis
 
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Reply Thu 17 Feb, 2011 04:42 am
@JGoldman10,
Lei hou leng lui is quite a compliment..

But beauty is in the eye of the beholder...
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jespah
 
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Reply Thu 17 Feb, 2011 05:06 am
@JGoldman10,
Meet them like you'd meet any other women. Say, "Hi, I'm JGoldman10. I'm happy to meet you." And then launch into whatever's appropriate, e. g. if it's at church, you might want to comment on the service. If it's at, say, a museum, talk about the artwork. You're at a dog park? Talk about her dog.

That is, be nice, be yourself, etc.

These women aren't some mystical, magical creatures who are going to be wooed significantly differently from Caucasian women, etc.

I suspect you have an idea in mind that all of the Asian women you meet will be immigrants or the daughters of same, or will be tradition-bound, etc. That's really no more likely than it is with any other kinds of people. One of my closer friends from college was of Chinese extraction. She was also from Dallas, and had an accent you could cut with a chainsaw.

These aren't purple unicorns; they're people.
Smileyrius
 
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Reply Thu 17 Feb, 2011 06:12 am
@jespah,
How do I introduce myself to purple Unicorns?
High Seas
 
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Reply Thu 17 Feb, 2011 07:13 am
@JGoldman10,
You'll have to be more specific. In the UK "Asian" refers to persons from the Indian subcontinent. In the US it technically refers to the entire continent, but my impression is you're looking for the Far Eastern contingent. You may have to say "oriental", or "Far-Eastern", if Sino-Japanese is your target.

You have to be even more specific if your primary interest is skin color; the skin shades of Japanese women are closer to porcelain, Thai and other Indo-Chinese tend to be more honey-colored. Chinese vary somewhat between north and south - all of them Han Chinese, but north is lighter-skinned.
jespah
 
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Reply Thu 17 Feb, 2011 09:51 am
@Smileyrius,
It helps a lot if you speak Elvish.
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Irishk
 
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Reply Thu 17 Feb, 2011 01:59 pm
http://lolsnaps.com/upload_pic/2192.jpg
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JGoldman10
 
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Reply Thu 17 Feb, 2011 03:34 pm
@High Seas,
I don't care about skin color. I just asked a question about it out of curiousity.
 

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