How to eliminate love towards a woman? Is there a good book that can help?
Your confused as to the meaning of the word love.
A true definition of the term will not contradict the definition of man. In fact, if one really seeks to preserve the notion of identity, one can define no good of man which contradicts the very definition of man.
You seek to modify emotion, emotion in of itself is not love.
One thing you must learn about emotion, it really is not directed at anything at all, in order to construct something of it, is the responsibility of reason.
For example, as Plato pointed out, when you get thirsty, is is not thirst for any particular thing, it is the function of reason to direct it to make it into a thirst for something specific.
So too about love. You don't try to remove the emotion, but make something of it that does achicve what it is meant to which means that it is reason that directs it toward or away from any particular person.
When you can do this, you can start a love affair with someone who is good for you, and the emotion will follow--baring your rational ability.