@Butrflynet,
I was brought up with books, my mum used to have a whole room full, it's funny but my friends houses weren't like this, not a book in sight.
I like intellectual conservation where you learn something I value that more then getting drunk. She'd spend her money on booze, I would books and couldn't think of anything worse then wasting all my money on booze.
I think people who are experts in a college subject have to realise that not everyone is knowledgeable in that area and has to be open to teaching people when conversing, that way we are getting somewhere instead of pontificating because neither party learns anything from that.
I had my own kind of library at home Butterfly net, sounds like you love reading like me. I've read 100's and some can say they've never read a book in their life, they don't know what they're missing!