The fact that her views represent the opposite end of the spectrum from most, is precisely what I found so grounding. If one followed her principles to the letter; he would indeed be ruthless. But, he would inevitably be poor, If he strictly placed "good of society" over his own needs. Rand correctly pointed out that without sucsessful business owners, there would be few jobs. Her prophecies regarding government control of business, has proven accurate. When those who haven't earned wealth take charge of it, collapse is sure to follow. Unlike Rand, I'm quite charitable... But the jobs I'm able to provide, do to my selfishness, dwarf the amount of good done by any money I give away.
dròm_et_rêve wrote: Her attitude is not of sacrificing yourself, but rather screwing over your neighbour for your own game. That's what Capitalism is. I picked up little, apart from rejecting the ideas presented to me.
That is a terribly unfair statement. One of my neighbors could not have afforded his condo, prior to going to work for a selfish capitalist pig (me). Every one of my employees, even my secretary, earns well above the national average. They all work harder than the national average, and make me more money than their underpaid peers would. No consideration of their "needs" is ever given insofar as pay. If I were to sacrifice myself, I would soon have no jobs to offer. My greed is one of the most important ingredients in managing a successful company. Without my greed, I would have no jobs and what would I have to give to charity?
On the other hand; I agree with you completely that family, friends and the quality time associated with them are another important form of wealth largely unaddressed by Rand. It is very important not adopt her works as some form of religion because they are hopelessly inadequate. Only after visiting Costa Rica did I discover that people can be amazingly happy, while existing on a sustenance, which would make your average Capitalist suicidal. I envy their Pura Vida, or Pure Life to the point I may join them one day soon. I won't forget, however, my capitalist philosophy is what enabled me to meet them in the first place. Rand also expressed the importance of putting a premium on ones time. "Every minute spent doing something you don't want to do; is a minute you're never going to get back".
Perhaps you didn't find her works "grounding" because you were raised with a healthy dose of "take care of yourself first" in the first place. My mom gave to the point that if she had lived to retirement age, she would have required assistance. The works of Ayn Rand simply helped me establish the opposite end of the spectrum, so I could find a comfortable spot in the middle. You are correct in assuming money can't buy happiness, but surely you recognize its advantages. You can not give that which you do not have.
I apologize Cav, if this tangent annoys you. My intention wasn't to hijack your thread.