I'm starting to feel a new preciousness here, probably a reaction to some very very sensitive philo folk, with whom I sympathize, but only so much. Let me direct some of you to dag's latest thread -
http://able2know.org/topic/145178-1
She has previously worked on reconciliation in very northern india and cambodia, this time with israelies and palestinians.
Really, ramp up and look around. Dag is low key, but very worth reading.