@Mame,
It was just a passing conversation I had with her. We were talking about work, and life at work and she believes Americans are spoon fed at their jobs in terms of their feelings getting hurt when a boss critisizes them.
On one level I understood exactly what she was saying. On another level, and I let her know it, that she didn't quite seem to understand is that being appreciated at work
matters especially when the work culture encourages team environments.