@Fountofwisdom,
dlowan said:
Quote:I am disgusted by people who find women and menstruation unclean.
But I wouldn't isolate that to being a male or Muslim issue. Honestly, if some woman put her hand in her underwear and threatened to put it anywhere near my face - whether there was menstrual blood on her hands or not-I'd probably tell her anything she wanted to know.
And I'm fine with the female gender as a gender and my own body and bodily fluids - but yeah - I guess I am disgusted by the thought of someone else's menstrual blood being anywhere near me - especially on my face and/or near my mouth or my nose.
But then I wanted to be a child/maternal health nurse/midwife so I volunteered at family planning and one day of holding the trays for pap smear samples was enough to convince me I couldn't ...too squeamish.
If these female interrogators get their kicks out of teasing and sexually humiliating these guys - that's pretty sad and sick. But as you said, not so different from threats of rape against women
In these cases especially - it's most definitely all about power- and the sexualization is incidental, but telling I think, in that women have been taught throughout history that that's where their power lies - and in many instances believe that that's the only power they have.