Throwing the pen out the conference room door made me laugh too-- I love that Chai in real life is obviously just as bold as her a2k personality, that's way cool.
On the restaurant thing, I wouldn't have said anything because I'm too wimpy about that kind of thing. I'd have sat there stewing and getting my blood pressure up...much better to speak up!
I'd be like the guy at the next table, who was willing to chime in but only
after you brought it up first... I'm a better backer-upper than I am a bringer-upper