One Saturday night, back in the early '80s, a girlfriend and I decided we wanted to learn how to two-step.
The Urban Cowboy craze had just hit, and even though we were confirmed city girls who would never be caught dead in cowboy boots, we thought it sounded like fun. So what if we didn't know how to dance western-style? We were pretty hot, and we knew we'd find some guys to teach us.
So we put on our tightest jeans and went to a new bar called "Willie's." It was the first of its kind in town. Tulsa was practically covered with them a couple of years later, but at the time, this was a Real Novelty.
Sure enough, we were two-steppin' with ease within an hour. It was not as difficult as we had expected. The guys were only too happy to show us how.
And then this tall, verrrrry skinny cowboy with curly hair and a mustache asked me to dance. Within 30 seconds on the dance floor, it became obvious that this was no current fad for him. He knew what he was doing. And he was good. "Where are you from?" I asked him when I caught my breath. He gave me this big grin and said, "Texas. And...do you mind if I lead?" He laughed and winked at me when he said it.
A few songs later, I begged to sit down. He said he had come with a friend, and they had to go someplace to meet some other people, but he'd be back in a couple of hours. Would I wait for him?
Oh, sure.
I'd heard this one before. He was cute, but the place was full of cute guys. "You leave, you take your chances!" I said.
"No, really! I'll be back!"
"Okay then, we'll see," I said.
Reaching into his pocket, he took out a business card and offered it to me. "If you have to leave, here's my numbers. Call me, okay? And, sorry about giving you a card...I don't want you to think I'm just trying to impress you or anything..."
"Oh, don't worry," I laughed. "I design these things for a living. I'm not impressed!"
Anyway, he left. I didn't expect him to come back. It took me about 10 minutes to find another dancing partner. The good times continued...
Then about an hour and a half later, I looked out across the dance floor, and I saw Skinny Cowboy out there! Hey! He came back after all! But...what's this? He was dancing with a 6' tall, gorgeous model-type with long, blonde hair and skintight jeans. And...they were both laughing!!! Grrrr. What the...
I ditched the guy I was dancing with, and he ditched Blondie. We met each other back on the dance floor. And we spent the next two hours dancing and talking. My girlfriend had long since left for home, so Skinny Cowboy said he'd give me a ride.
I thought he was cute, but a little rough around the edges. I thought he'd be a good time for a few weeks, nothing more.
I was wrong. Dead wrong. The more I found out about him, the more there was to like. Turns out, this was no ordinary cowboy after all. He was much more valuable than that.
That was 26 years ago on March 20. We've been together ever since.
I've always wondered how I got lucky enough to find him. In a cowboy bar, of all places. Who woulda thought?!
Finders Keepers!