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I've Never Given Up On Anything In My Life

 
 
Chai
 
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Reply Thu 30 Aug, 2007 08:44 am
Such as?

I believe that anything in life can change so that it's importance/viability is thrown into question.

There are somethings I can't/don't want to imagine changing, thus making them less important, or no longer viable....but logically I know that can happen to anything.

I'm with freeduck...giving up, in the right circumstances, can be very liberating.
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FreeDuck
 
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Reply Thu 30 Aug, 2007 08:47 am
Bear, have you been watching too much Naruto?
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DrewDad
 
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Reply Thu 30 Aug, 2007 08:53 am
Bi-Polar Bear wrote:
we're wired differently I suppose. If I was trying to do something for someone and learned they didn't want or need it or that it was best to just let something go because it was counterproductive , well that's different from giving up. That's modifying your approach.

A rose is a rose is a rose...
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CalamityJane
 
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Reply Thu 30 Aug, 2007 09:02 am
Some things are easier to give up, they aren't important enough,
others are worth fighting for.
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kickycan
 
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Reply Thu 30 Aug, 2007 09:02 am
Re: I've Never Given Up On Anything In My Life
Bi-Polar Bear wrote:
Never. Not like any of you care, but never.


That's sad. Life is so much easier once you give up.
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squinney
 
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Reply Thu 30 Aug, 2007 09:02 am
Sometimes, like when I'm doing a particularly difficult soduku, I change my approach by tearing that page out of the book and throwing it away.

And, sometimes I give up.

I don't find giving up to necessarily be a bad thing.
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Chai
 
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Reply Thu 30 Aug, 2007 09:32 am
Re: I've Never Given Up On Anything In My Life
kickycan wrote:
Bi-Polar Bear wrote:
Never. Not like any of you care, but never.


That's sad. Life is so much easier once you give up.



YEAH!

and funner too!

let's all say screw the diets and eat ice cream.
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Mame
 
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Reply Thu 30 Aug, 2007 11:16 am
BPB, what do you call the end of a relationship?

give up:

a. to abandon hope; despair.
b. to desist from; renounce: to give up smoking.
c. to surrender; relinquish.

d. to devote (oneself) entirely to.
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Montana
 
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Reply Thu 30 Aug, 2007 11:27 am
I give up sometimes, just to keep my sanity.
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Bi-Polar Bear
 
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Reply Thu 30 Aug, 2007 11:48 am
Mame wrote:
BPB, what do you call the end of a relationship?

give up:

a. to abandon hope; despair.
b. to desist from; renounce: to give up smoking.
c. to surrender; relinquish.

d. to devote (oneself) entirely to.



I don't get why you're tieing the end of a relationship to this thread....
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happycat
 
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Reply Thu 30 Aug, 2007 11:55 am
Chai wrote:
to be serious for a moment...

isn't "giving up" sometimes the wisest thing to do, depending on what it is you're trying to accomplish, or the situation?

Never giving up can at times just be plain stubborness.

Then, not giving up when it would really be the best for all involved, is just cutting off your nose to spite your face.

I've given up many times in life....when I realized I was wrong in my thinking, or what I was trying to accomplish...

When what I was seeking and/or trying to hold on to wasn't working for me any more...

When I've learned what I was trying to do for someone wasn't what they wanted, or needed.


Why am I thinking about Bush and Iraq now?
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Mame
 
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Reply Thu 30 Aug, 2007 12:26 pm
Bi-Polar Bear wrote:
Mame wrote:
BPB, what do you call the end of a relationship?

give up:

a. to abandon hope; despair.
b. to desist from; renounce: to give up smoking.
c. to surrender; relinquish.

d. to devote (oneself) entirely to.



I don't get why you're tieing the end of a relationship to this thread....


Isn't it obvious? The end of a relationship signifies giving up on it. Not a pejorative statement, but it's true. As you know, I'm in the same boat, myself. Sometimes it's just the right time to do it but it doesn't negate the fact that it's giving up.
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Letty
 
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Reply Thu 30 Aug, 2007 12:35 pm
Well, bear, your thread inspired me to write a poem. The muse has been missing of late.

Mame, I wasn't aware of your situation. If you are sorry, then I am sorry. If not, then so be it, gal. <smile>
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Mame
 
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Reply Thu 30 Aug, 2007 12:46 pm
Letty, thank you for your concern and support. We're just moving in different directions. We are amicable about it and are remaining good friends. He's a very lovable man and he's integral to my children's lives.
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Bi-Polar Bear
 
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Reply Thu 30 Aug, 2007 03:17 pm
mame honey, it had to do with the recovery of my business which went from a half a mil a year business to a 250 dollar a week business and is now self sustaining and growing again. I got sick, I almost died, I dug in and went to work and hated it but I did what needed to be done. I quit my job in Dec. of 2006 and told squinney at the time that within six months I'd be making a better living than I made at the "regular" job and I did, as I always do, exactly what I said I was going to do, because I never give up. That's not arrogant or prideful, anyone can do it. tenacity trumps everything.

As far as my relationship with squinney goes, that book may or may not be finished, but I would have thought you'd have ascertained I don't want to talk about something so personal here.
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happycat
 
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Reply Thu 30 Aug, 2007 03:24 pm
BPB - you should change your user name to Tenacious B Very Happy
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husker
 
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Reply Thu 30 Aug, 2007 03:34 pm
Chai wrote:
Such as?

I'm with freeduck...giving up, in the right circumstances, can be very liberating.


sorry but that sounded like submission - maybe it is my point of view Question
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Bi-Polar Bear
 
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Reply Thu 30 Aug, 2007 03:56 pm
happycat wrote:
BPB - you should change your user name to Tenacious B Very Happy


sometimes you have to f**k her hard..... Laughing
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happycat
 
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Reply Thu 30 Aug, 2007 04:41 pm
BPB - actually I was talking about your tenacity regarding your work

Very Happy
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Bi-Polar Bear
 
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Reply Thu 30 Aug, 2007 04:56 pm
happycat wrote:
BPB - actually I was talking about your tenacity regarding your work

Very Happy


have you never heard the tenacious d song f**k her gently?
that was the reference. do try to keep up. Laughing
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