Hey, Happy Birthday Smorgs and everyone else with a B-Day :-D
I would also go with having it at home and spending the $ on catering/cleaning.
I kinda liked Nimh,s idea about the male stripper and I think he'd look real sexy in a cowboy outfit.
He wouldn't have to take everything off, though. It's no fun if you don't leave something to the imagination.
Nimh, you can leave on your cowboy hat and the spurs