Do you have someone that can take mo for an hour or so ? So you can sit down and shut up?
Literally..?
get about an hour of silence some how.
Silence doesnt mean catching up on cooking, cleaning, or taking that shower you dont always get with a little child underfoot either..
Turn on some music, preferably slow and quiet, put some pillows on the floor, turn off the lights and just shut up.
Concentrate on one specific thing in the song.. the drums, the singer.. what ever you want .
Picture them performing, and you watching from a few feet away. Imaigne their outift, the surroundings, smell them...
find a way to just disappear for a while..
You cant control the kids lives, unfortunatly.
And just realizing that sometimes isnt enough.
As a woman , what these kids may be going through will set your heart into a vice,
as a mother it will piss you off.
So check out for a while some how. That may be your best bet.