I'm getting married in the morning!

My heartiest congratulations to both of you!

Sarah
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Hi Sarah. Nice to see you again. Thanks for your earlier post on "How I met my spouse /partner".

How's it going, eh?

Thank you one and all! The "I do's" have been said, the rings have been exchanged and I am definitely as happy as can be. Funny, not a one of my real life friends even know yet! I just gotta get those announcements out one of these days.

I feel great!! I feel so wonderful!! I feel especially happy that I could share this with all of you!

Now, if we could just get his pesky, spiteful ex to move to Antarctica....

Whatever.

There is a core love.

Explain this core love to me, Osso.....

What, have I been blubbering around on a2k again. Well, I suppose so.

I might be able to defend the concept in the morrow.

No hurries, no worries, friend.

I was a bit sappy, wasn't I? :wink:

Sappy, good.

Just found this thread. What a delightful surprise! Congratulations Lady J! I'm so happy for you.

My honey and I have been living together for several years. We're very happy and comfortable with our relationship and often talk about getting married (always in terms of "NEXT YEAR"). Nevertheless, we're both a little apprehensive about ACTUALLY getting married because year after year passes and we're still in no hurry. Perhaps we both harbor some irrational fear that our loving relationship will somehow change if we "tie the knot."

LOOKING FOR ADVICE from the newlywed: How did the two of you know for sure that eloping was what you really wanted to do?

Eloping with a party shortly or not too long after seems the best of both worlds, to me. But, then, I am a tad unusual re pov.

How can this be sappy???

Eschewing toxic people is the first step to a happier life and I think there are lots of ways to do it without raising your own toxic level. Humor and honesty... a great start, e.g. renaming her "Ms. Pesky Spiteful." heehee

You need to have a small party... soon... invite a few friends and tell them after a couple of bottles of some good champagne. How about this coming Thursday night? Thursdays are great nights for a good party -- people are often available and ready for the weekend. <nodding> Try it. You could designate it a costume party and come as the Bride and Groom.