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Sister copying my style choices.

 
 
Reply Sun 22 Dec, 2024 04:08 pm
I don't even know why she feels the need to do that when she's always calling me ugly behind my back and saying ew at me. I decided to die my hair light golden brown and like 3 days later she does the same. Then she parts het hair the same as mine. She HATED pink, now she keeps telling my mom that I "grew out" of liking that color and she likes it now. I never did lol! When I started lining my top lid with liner she started doing the same thing. Now she's doing her makeup like mine. I only do mascara and lip balm. She was normally a full face of makeup kind of person. The thing that bothers me is that my sister actually looks better than I do in this stuff.

I'm not conventionally attractive. (My sister is) I gained weight because I got depressed and I saw her look at me and proceed to throw the pizza she was eating on the ground to feed it to her dog.



I feel so mad at her for doing this. Anything I do with my fashion, she will soon follow.
It's like a slap in the face. I'm being told I'm ugly, but she's stealing ideas from the very person she hates.

I feel like she's stealing the only things I have when it comes to beauty. She has plenty of it! Lol! I wish she would go copy someone else! She likes ariana grande, but I never see her copying her that much!

I'm not a teenager. My sister is in her late 20s and I'm mid 20s.
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tsarstepan
 
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Reply Sun 22 Dec, 2024 09:04 pm
@Bluehour77,
Bluehour77 wrote:

I'm not a teenager. My sister is in her late 20s and I'm mid 20s.


You claim not to be a teenager? You sure sound like one. Take her mimicking of your style or attempt at a style with grace and dignity. Stop projecting your jealousy onto her. Good grief. Act your age.

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when she's always calling me ugly behind my back and saying ew at me.

We're forced to take you at your word. I suspect you're blowing this out of proportion and also maybe misleading us to make us automatically side with you. Spoilers! We don't know you here. I'm not instantly taking everything you say as fact until you establish who you are as a person (since you're likely not to give evidence on your sister and how you know she's insulting you behind your back). Especially when the simplest explanation is ... you're possibly paranoid and have low self esteem.
Bluehour77
 
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Reply Tue 24 Dec, 2024 10:01 am
@tsarstepan,
That's correct! You don't know me. My sisters have bullied me ever since I was a tween. They say sh*t like that while I'm around! I know they're talking **** about me, I've heard it. There always has to be someone who invalidates my experiences simply because they've never had it happen to themselves. If you're just going to criticize and nit give any helpful advice why are you here?
Ragman
 
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Reply Tue 24 Dec, 2024 11:15 am
@Bluehour77,
Case closed.
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tsarstepan
 
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Reply Tue 24 Dec, 2024 04:02 pm
@Bluehour77,
Bluehour77 wrote:

That's correct! You don't know me. My sisters have bullied me ever since I was a tween. They say sh*t like that while I'm around! I know they're talking **** about me, I've heard it. There always has to be someone who invalidates my experiences simply because they've never had it happen to themselves. If you're just going to criticize and nit give any helpful advice why are you here?


It's a good thing you're an alleged adult and aren't legally compelled to socialize with your sisters. Move on and leave them in the dust. Why are you giving them any power over you?
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