Pros and Cons of my boyfriend - is he the one?

For context I am 27 years old and my boyfriend is 26. We live together and have been going out for three years.

PROS:

• If I ask him to go somewhere/get something for me and I cant he will do it for me

• He makes my pack lunches for work

• He gets me lovely gifts for my birthday

• He is consistent and doesn’t play games

• We are good when we go out together/good dynamic at getting on with friends

• We have the same interests of going out/films/etc

• Is loving towards me

• We have a laugh

• Sends me flowers when I have been studying

• We enjoy going for big walks in the week

• Wants the same things out of a lifestyle


CONS:
• Says we've been somewhere when we haven't (e.g - Never been to the Ivy but when I said in front of my mum I hadn't he said YES WE HAVE, a lie

• If we have an argument he will never make it better I just give up and start making him laugh or whatever

• Makes the weekend a bit confusing as I never know what he wants to do - in reality he wants to go and see his friends and makes it a bit confusing until we see them

• On a weekend when I have to study goes to the pub with his ex there - whilst bombarding me w texts saying would I feel uncomfortable if he goes? Knowing she creates drama and we usually as a unit avoid seeing her as it's a lot of hassle.

• Gets annoyed if I go to bed and don't watch TV with him, when I have work the next day

• Goes into a thick mood and I don't often no why

• Tells me I am aggressive if we ever argue or squabble - when I'm not even raising my voice just standing up for myself

• If we cook something he won't let me google how to do it even if he doesn't know/doesn't let me google anything always says he knows like directions etc and we often get lost

• Doesn't just want to chill some weekends always has to see friends

• V big ego at work - says no one 'listen's to him when he is 26 and inexperienced.

• Went in a mood when I wanted to drive somewhere once because he can't drive and didn't want to be 'embarrassed'

• Told my good friend that I go to sleep at 8:30pm every night, which is untrue and I did it once when I felt unwell, was weird and embarrassing having to defend myself

• When we were playing a game with my parents once he wasn’t winning so sad he was retiring to bed when we couldn’t continue the game without a foruth person (him)