@neptuneblue,
First off I don't have any sexual components, I'm not sure where you got that from. I'm female and my husband is male. I merely stated that I have the ability to achieve orgasism by crossing my legs and using will power.
Last I checked that wasn't trashy at all. So no need to clean up my act, learn to read. Yes my husband has E.D. but I don't tell my friends and family. That's why I am on a site where no one knows he or I asking for input. Did I not mention that I didn't have a problem that he can't perform because I have the ability to please myself?
How did that degrade my husband?
It's not his fault nor mine that he has ED, but it would be nice if he cuddled and showed me affection even though we can't have sex.
So, before throwing stones at me...clean the pebbles off your porch.