@Coconuts75,
I'm not sure that you understand this forum. This ain't a cheater (pro or con) specific forum. Thankfully they're relatively rare as subjects. Lurk all you want. This is a general topic online forum covering a wide range of subjects beyond relationships, good or bad or otherwise.
AS for your "husband"? Just check to see if a2k is on his browser history to see if he visited or participated in the site. Chances are he probably doesn't understand or know what Incognito Mode is.