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Sun 30 Apr, 2023 02:41 pm
Long story short i asked out a coworker about a month ago and we made a date to meet up and she seemed into it. During the week before the date I get a message that she was experiencing some personal problems, then the day before she cancels but still wants to make plans and she would tell me what’s wrong at a later date.
A week later from that I get a big message basically saying I just got out of a relationship I still love the person I need time but again she says we will make plans but not right away. After that nothing she seems to do a complete 180 with me when I saw her at work.
I reached out asking her how she been since I backed off from her and she is like we will talk at work but on that day she never bothered. I’m ok with this being over but I would like to ask her why she would even give her number if she wasn’t interested and wait a 2 weeks to finally say what was really going on and I’m kinda hurt by that. Should I tell her what I feel or leave it alone.
@DarrinCal,
Listen, she's going through a rough patch that has nothing to do with you. You don't really know her and you shouldn't be hurt. Just leave her alone. She has enough crazy feelings of her own right now and doesn't need yours added.
@DarrinCal,
Staying interested at a distance is the best course. She just does not need pressure or new concerns: like "why is he pressuring me?".