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Mon 20 Mar, 2023 04:01 pm
Hi. I met a man online. We hit it off immediately and met within 3 weeks.
We have dated since early December. I was starting to really develop
Feelings for him. We had not slept together yet, but had kissed a lot, held hands, hugged, etc. A couple weeks ago, I noticed he was not texting as much and the terms of endearment had stopped. I had just seen him in the prior days and he told me I amazed him and was such a sweetheart and he liked me a ton and enjoyed me immensely. Now he says that he doesn't think we click, it doesn't feel right. I was stunned. He then turned around and Said he'd love to see me again, I was awesome. We have had dinner together twice since then. We had fun...lots of talking and laughing, but only a kiss on the cheek and hugging at the end of the night. I'm kinda gutted, truthfully. I'm wondering if he love bombed me? He still texts me a couple times daily. Should I just go quiet and see if he seeks me out? Oh and I told him I definitely felt more than friendship for him and he replied time will tell. I have no idea what that meant.
I'm hoping if I become less available naybe he will miss our interactions and reach out. I can't believe I could have misconstrued our connection. He has told me I'm beautiful, kind, smart, funny, have a precious heart, a giver, etc.once he said I should move on because he's really a piece of ****. I have no idea why he said he's a piece of **** unless this is his regular mode of operation? I'm going to hopefully meet other guys, but I really wanted a relationship with him. Is it still possible or should I just try to forget him?
@Rosie12,
All I can do is repeat Maya Angelou, "When someone tells you who they are (in his case, "a piece of ****"), believe them.
And that goes for actions, as well.
Believe him. You will likely save yourself a lot of grief.
"Now he says that he doesn't think we click, it doesn't feel right. I was stunned. He then turned around and Said he'd love to see me again, I was awesome." Think about it - how can he say
both of those things?
"Should I just go quiet and see if he seeks me out?" No. Don't start playing games. It's completely wrong and pointless.
I'd bet he's dating other women and seeing who he can trick (or who he'll get lucky with).
@Rosie12,
Let him go, although he may pique your interest for some reason (probably because we want what we can't have). Avoid the heartache and find someone else. Not worth it