@mom2girls,
When was the last time he villaged, pillaged, and dominated you like Plymouth-rock? When was the last time he walked you by a leash, turned and tossed you around like a rag-doll, and made your legs vibrate, and left you in shock/horror/traumatized/and in terror of his manly presence? Leaving you wanting more or to afraid to get him to stop?
When was the last time you fixed yourself up? When the last time you wore your hair high, "shaved", went bald, or walked around in bright colorful clothing that is pleasant and not something that looks like camouflage? When was the last time you dressed up as if you was on a Dollar a day paycheck?
You have to ask yourself was there anything to trigger this behavior?
What made him go for you? What made him go back to his computer-wife?
In some nations ( like Eastern Europe ) the guys are watching adult entertainment in the same room while thanksgiving or Christmas dinner is occurring. People want to live happy and get along with each other.
So in religion women are seen as ugly creatures.... That being said your job is to keep his "head wet" and make the marriage into the first time you met. The "Allure" and keep him interested in you.
In my area every day ( non-stop ) I see these housewives, and single women working out walking about. Usually the single women will be more dressed up
while the housewives will be well put together for a hard work out. Point I am saying is that you have to stay in shape, and make yourself available.
Like say things to him, leave things out, pretend your attempting to get his attention, even behave with innuendo ( Like take that actress who is the original Karen from that show ), even make religion into an over-sexed thing.
You have to be creative. In fact all of this over-sexualized stuff we encountered from the classrooms, to the workplaces, and walking about from work and school or vacations is basically meant for the husband and wife. I an not saying life should be bland but you have to understand, just because you are X age does not mean you should "know your role and shut your mouth". If you have the body then dress up, If you have the income then get micro-retouching, laser, etc, wear your hair high, get extensions,
wear a push-up-bra. Dress up pretty, beautiful, and possibly cheap, young and not-informed/stupid. Make yourself look adjacent to your daughter.
I am going to say something evil. As a dude, young/fit/personality is what turns me on. If your not young then your fit, if your not fit then your personality needs to be in check ( as I mentioned before ), and if you have no personality, taste, or whatever then you might as well be well-to-do or well-put. Because I say to these ladies, "seduce me". I have work to do. I see some young naive clean pretty face, I am not thinking about her face I am thinking about how clean her lord-n-mercy is down-stairs. The expressions she will have with me. I have been into girls apartments, from 15-51 yo and honestly you got people out there who knows and understands guys and targets men. They are well kept, and knows what to do.
When was the last time you begged for "it" and afterwards you fixed him up a nice strong meal afterwards, while giving him a special massage?
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