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Sun 22 Jan, 2023 12:21 am
Disclaimer: I take full responsibility for getting involved with a woman busy divorcing. I am moving on after this post.
So a few months ago I met a woman and became close friends. After a week or two the relationship became sexual. I met here a month or two after having a bipolar episode and spending time in an institution. As I spended time with her she seemed to do all the things expected of her to reduce the symptoms. So it seems that at least in the period whe were friends she were in a relatively good state.
Anyhow, so during our time together she always talked about the husband that is busy devorcing her and how she wants to get back with him. Recently after hearing again that she wants to get back with here husband and telling people that she were praying for this to happen, I decided that it was best that I don't visit here house and that at least a sexual relationship is not possible since the divorce trail is approaching in 3 weeks and that she needed space to get back with her husband. I told her this and she agreed. She told me that she had a plan to get her husband back. This was a few days ago. I should mention that during this relationship I often felt that she was disrespecting me through her behaviour as a friend.
So a few days after the "break-up" I noticed a few odd behaviours. Anyhow 3 days after the break-up I took her to hospital to visit her sick sister. As we walked to my car after the visit I jokingly told her that I found her a husband. This is wehere she told me she now has aboyfiend, but that same day she was still talking about getting her husband back. Honestly I felt leaving her there at the hospital to walk home at night. I did however took her back home with the humiliation of her new boyfriend's car in the parking are of her home.
So the next day she posted a picture of her and the new boyfriend on social media. This is days before the divorce trail. She looks happy on the picture. And she told me she is in love. She also posted a pic of her diary where she prayed to God for a man in her life in line with her aspirations, but this was 2 months ago. But as recently as a few days ago she asked people to pray for her and her husband to get together even as the divorce trail is approaching?
So a question:
1. Is she really in love with this new man or is there possibly something else going on.
@Joey1,
Yes, she is in love with this new man. She will be in love with lots of new men.
Get out while the getting is good.