To believe or not believe in gender roles

TO BELIEVE OR NOT BELIEVE IN GENDER ROLES
It’s all that matters right? What happens when you believe in gender roles?
Well, you make yourself more burden to carry by believing gender roles that society gave to you. For men it is the provider, the strongest, the saying the ast word role. What happens when men accept it? From the childhood they are raised as if they can do whatever they want, they can say the last word and women have nothing to say them back. Their emotional needs are suprassed and changed with as if those needs are sign of weakness. So they learn that men don’t cry, don’t show any feelings. Men has to work and women can’t take this provider role from them. If women work and be successful their role will be taken away that they will left with nothing. That was their strongest card forseveral years so how dare you come and take that away? And his mama said women are weak, they are not meant to work but you see them working…? Mama lied to you. Well society lied to you. Women can and areable to work.
And suprassing emotions only end in unhealthy relationship with people. It literally has no use to an individual. What’s wrong with crying? It is the natural reaction of sadness. It is a human trait. If you are trying to hide it then you are trying to make yourself an inhuman creature, a robot maybe. When you are aware of your emotions and can express them well there won’t be any drama in your relationships.
You don’t have to say the last Word. Just get rid of all ‘’have to’’s. Relase your burden. Be a human.
For women who take the house stuff role, the weaker, the obeyer role they will end up develavuate themselves. While men putting so much pressure on women, women also put the same pressure on their own gender. That’s the worst thing. Just because you are okay with develuate yourself doesnt mean others should do the same. It’s clear that you have problems but don’t spread it please.
As I mentioned below women have the ability to work so why not working in a job that they have interested in. And how sweet to earn your own Money and not depend on anyone. It gives you more freedom and self confidence. You can choose not to work of course I am just saying you have a choice not the strict roles to follow. And if the gender roles would make sense tell me when a woman do every house stuff even though she suffers painful periods and give birth (again a painful process), take care of the baby and take care of her husband how these make the woman weaker again? Women are taught that this is normal. Like women shoudn’t even talk about their periods because it is not a big deal because it is a natural processs because every woman has it. They tell you to not to exeggerate it. Well let me bring the scientific facts to you laides: Period pain is equal to heart attack pain. Just because women endure this every month for ever year doesn’t make it a simple, unimportant thing. It is even worse for some women who have some kind of cysts. So know your own worth. You are more than what society tells you.
Not believing gender roles will free you from unneccessary burden. It will help you in your journey to become an self confident individual.