I am crying all the time because I was cheated on months ago and I dumped him

You're allowed to mourn the end of a relationship.

But not forever.

If you feel that it's excessive, seek counseling.

Again if he is just looking at pictures ( even adult stuff ) that is okay and normal. In fact something most guys will do at some point if the opportunity arises. Boyfriend and girlfriend bs does not count, and even in marriage you could have an open relationship.

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I will tell you the truth.

All men are that way and so all women. If your not the first in his life and your not fit, healthy, and keep yourself looking good. He might go another direction.

It is okay for guys to look at pictures of girls or whatever. That is our entertainment. Your suppose to shut your mouth and accept it.

Another reality is that the whole "girlfriend and boyfriend thing does not count at all" Only marriage counts, and having children cements that value.

You have to understand that their is so much horror in this world and you as a woman is limited. You want a guy? you might as well dress up pretty ( like young ) and look for a young guy, or even winking, or letting him know by being playful with eye contact, or stuff.

But

Get to know him, because "he might be a project" meaning you might have to invest in is benefit and guide him a bit. Women are the backbone of men you are our support. Talk about the term "Used and abused" that is what you are for and is how peace in this world is maintained.

Your suppose to idolize him, and make his life great and praise him. Because the world outside is torment, pain, and hell. Your this slice of life he works for.

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If you associate with a guy who does not need you, then he will leave you.
If he knows that you want him for his income he will not care for you.
If you keep bothering guys you run into, invite them out ( repetitively ) or even just want to talk they will talk with you.
If you work with a guy while working on yourself is simpler.

You have some guys who are so confused they have no idea. I would say any guy who just started college or any guy who is still in that method of state even after years is a good guy.

Guys in club just want to get you drunk and go to bed with you.

All men young and old are potential to actually make your life go anywhere.

Do not seek money, seek a person who is capable of making money and has the least want to leave you.

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If a guy ever get you pregnant you need to stay with him, even get him to marry you, and follow him around to keep an eye on him
( not use the phone ), I mean literally be in his presence.

You have a long distance relationships can work out, you just have to be honest.