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A HOUSE BY THE SIDE OF THE ROAD . . .

 
 
Setanta
 
Reply Tue 9 Aug, 2005 02:39 pm
I don't remember the house in the Bronx, i was too small. Just a vague memory of sitting on the stoop. But i remember so vividly the house of my grandparents to which i went to live my boyhood.

It was white clapboard, and the result of more than thirty years of improvement and expansion by my grandfather. The family story was that he bought a four-room bungalo for a song (don't know which tune) and then he and his future brother-in-law jacked up the sleepers, dug a space beneath for a basement, and laid courses of brick for the foundation, pouring a concrete floor for the basement. Into this he put a coal-fired furnace, very modern in 1919, with a coal chute and bin. In winter, he would bank the fire at night and stoke it before dawn. He also added the radical inovation of an electric blower to circulate the heat.

On the front was a gallery, which he enclosed, putting a door, and six sash windows facing the street, and a sash window at either end. There was a small porch at the side, which he also enclosed. There was a pump to raise water from an artesian well he had had dug at great expense, which brought the water to within a dozen yards or so of the surface. Armstrong energy was required to get it up to the surface and your pail. Even though water from the town was piped in long before i was born, we still pumped the well water for drinking and cooking, using the city water only for baths and the washing.

My grandfather and his brother-in-law (he was by then married) added a second story, with two bedrooms, turning the house into a four bedroom house. All of the floors were hardwood, and they built a beautiful hardwood staircase with bannister. My grandmother was partial to cherrywood, and they acquired over the years a cherry breakfront, drop-leaf dining room table with eight matching chairs, a folding cherry rocking chair, all of which chairs my grandmother upholstered with forest green satin. She had a Singer foot-treadle sewing machine, and my grandfather built her a stand for it of cherrywood, to which the sewing machine was attached on a collapsible plate which folded into the sewing stand. It had a drop-leaf for the material to lie on, and four drawers for her sewing materials, and he replaced the foot-treadle with an electric motor. She was the first woman in the county (so she claimed) with an electric sewing machine. The walls were plaster and lathe, and they got a fresh coat of white lead every two years--as did the clapboard on the outside. We painted half of the inside and half of the outside every year.

The yard had two bartlett pear trees, intended by my grandmother as ornamentals (meaning we could eat all the pears we wanted, but had to pick them up and throw them out to do the mowing in the autumn). Their bark is such a dark brown that spring rains turn it black, and with the white blossoms, they are quite striking. There was box hedge on the street, and on the north side at a right angle. On the south side, next to the railroad right of way was a terrace, separated from the yard by a white picket fence, which also got a coat of white lead every other year. It was lined with snowball bushes on the inside. At the south corner of the enclosed front porch was a trellis up which my grandmother trained tea roses. Rose bushes filled the spaces in the corners of the house elsewhere. I loved to play next to the coal chute on the north side (even though i'd get in trouble for getting dirty) because of the lilies-of-the-valley, which like shade and thrived in the coal dust rich soil. This was opposite the row of lilac bushes on the north edge of the property--for me, spring time is the smell of lilacs and the tiny, waxy flowers of the lily-of-the-valley.

In the back were the sheds my grandfather had built for his tools and for storing food grown in the half-acre garden. There was also a miniature house, perfect in all details with small sash windows which he had built for his twin daughters. There was a cherry tree, peach tree, a golden delicious apple tree and two grape arbors.

We lived a good life, and worked to keep our home comfortable and beautiful, and as children, we complained of the work and did not appreciate how good we had it. Life within the house was not always so charming, but the mere atmosphere was healthy and positive. I doubt i will ever have such a home again.
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djjd62
 
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Reply Tue 9 Aug, 2005 02:58 pm
Our House

I'll light the fire, you put the flowers in the vase that you bought today.
Staring at the fire for hours and hours while I listen to you
play your love songs all night long for me, only for me.

Come to me now and rest your head for just five minutes, everything is good.
Such a cozy room, the windows are illuminated by the
sunshine through them, fiery gems for you, only for you.

Our house is a very, very fine house with two cats in the yard, life used to be so hard,
now everything is easy cause of you and our la, la, la…

Our house is a very, very fine house with two cats in the yard, life used to be so hard,
now everything is easy cause of you and our

I'll light the fire, you put the flowers in the vase that you bought today.
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djjd62
 
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Reply Tue 9 Aug, 2005 02:59 pm
Our House
Madness

Father wears his Sunday best
Mother's tired she needs a rest
The kids are playing up downstairs
Sister's sighing in her sleep
Brother's got a date to keep
He can't hang around

Our house, in the middle of our street
Our house, in the middle of our ...

Our house it has a crowd
There's always something happening
And it's usually quite loud
Our mum she's so house-proud
Nothing ever slows her down
And a mess is not allowed

Our house, in the middle of our street
Our house, in the middle of our ...

Our house, in the middle of our street
Our house, in the middle of our ...
Something tells you that you've got to get away from it

Father gets up late for work
Mother has to iron his shirt
Then she sends the kids to school
Sees them off with a small kiss
She's the one they're going to miss
In lots of ways

Our house, in the middle of our street
Our house, in the middle of our ...

I remember way back then when everything was true and when
We would have such a very good time such a fine time
Such a happy time
And I remember how we'd play simply waste the day away
Then we'd say nothing would come between us two dreamers

Father wears his Sunday best
Mother's tired she needs a rest
The kids are playing up downstairs
Sister's sighing in her sleep
Brother's got a date to keep
He can't hang around

Our house, in the middle of our street
Our house, in the middle of our street

Our house, in the middle of our street
Our house, in the middle of our ...

Our house, was our castle and our keep
Our house, in the middle of our street

Our house, that was where we used to sleep
Our house, in the middle of our street

Our house, in the middle of our street
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Letty
 
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Reply Wed 10 Aug, 2005 06:15 am
Setanta, I could picture in my mind your grandfather's house( in the Bronx?) It sounds so familiar to me--the cherry wood; the bartlett pears; the craftsmanship that went into all the furniture and house design. Ah, the homes of yester-year. Thanks for the memory, Set.

I have to smile at dj's songs. A nice way to sum up the house by the side of the road. Hey, dj. Are you a friend to man?
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Sturgis
 
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Reply Wed 10 Aug, 2005 06:21 am
I recently caught a newspaper article from when I lived down in New York City on Staten Island. The house I lived in has been demolished and replaced with 8 connected town houses. I guess that guy was right when he said You can't go home again.
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Setanta
 
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Reply Wed 10 Aug, 2005 07:28 am
Good lookin' out, Miss Letty . . . but no, that house was not in the Bronx . . .

House by the Side of the Road

Samuel Walter Foss, 1899

THERE are hermit souls that live withdrawn
In the place of their self-content;
There are souls like stars, that dwell apart,
In a fellowless firmament;
There are pioneer souls that blaze the paths
Where highways never ran-
But let me live by the side of the road
And be a friend to man.

Let me live in a house by the side of the road
Where the race of men go by-
The men who are good and the men who are bad,
As good and as bad as I.
I would not sit in the scorner's seat
Nor hurl the cynic's ban-
Let me live in a house by the side of the road
And be a friend to man.

I see from my house by the side of the road
By the side of the highway of life,
The men who press with the ardor of hope,
The men who are faint with the strife,
But I turn not away from their smiles and tears,
Both parts of an infinite plan-
Let me live in a house by the side of the road
And be a friend to man.

I know there are brook-gladdened meadows ahead,
And mountains of wearisome height;
That the road passes on through the long afternoon
And stretches away to the night.
And still I rejoice when the travelers rejoice
And weep with the strangers that moan,
Nor live in my house by the side of the road
Like a man who dwells alone.

Let me live in my house by the side of the road,
Where the race of men go by-
They are good, they are bad, they are weak, they are strong,
Wise, foolish - so am I.
Then why should I sit in the scorner's seat,
Or hurl the cynic's ban?
Let me live in my house by the side of the road
And be a friend to man.
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Letty
 
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Reply Wed 10 Aug, 2005 08:16 am
A big smile for Setanta. I wondered how all them trees would have room to grow in the Bronx, boss.
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dlowan
 
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Reply Wed 10 Aug, 2005 08:29 am
Set seems a little sad......


(((((((((((((((((((((((((Set))))))))))))))))))))))))

and smooches and such - if needed and wanted....
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Lady J
 
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Reply Wed 10 Aug, 2005 08:37 am
That was a beautiful telling, Setanta. Thank you for bringing some old memories of my own back to life. And the poem by Samuel Walter Foss, was very softening to my heart this morning, if that makes any sense.

Noddy girl, you don't miss a thing! Smile
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Letty
 
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Reply Wed 10 Aug, 2005 08:52 am
Hey, Lady J. I ain't Noddy. I'm Letty. Nice to meet you Razz

Fbaezer is always gettin me confused with Noddy. I don't mind, however. It's quite flattering, really.
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Lady J
 
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Reply Wed 10 Aug, 2005 09:22 am
Ack! Too much java and too little sleep!

You caught me, Miss Letty! And my dear, gracious woman, it is always a pleasure to get reacquainted with you. Smile



Noddy's been on my mind all morning......
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Letty
 
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Reply Wed 10 Aug, 2005 09:24 am
No, prob, honey. Noddy is partying with Frank and retinue in New York City, I think.
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Lady J
 
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Reply Wed 10 Aug, 2005 09:53 am
That's what she told me, too. I hope she is having a ball! I'm glad you took my oops as a compliment. You two woman are in the same class in my book. I have great respect for you both, for your wisdom, your generosity, your compassion and your friendship. Thank you.
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Letty
 
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Reply Wed 10 Aug, 2005 10:50 am
Well, Lady J. You and I are alike in that we make honest observations as opposed to patronizing, and Noddy is the same.

Don't believe that our Setanta is given to flattery, either. Razz
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Setanta
 
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Reply Wed 10 Aug, 2005 10:52 am
Not unless there's a substantial sum of money to be had . . .
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Letty
 
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Reply Wed 10 Aug, 2005 11:16 am
fumbles around in quarter jar. Hmmmm. Well, Set. There's about $17.00 in that jar, but you'll have to roll your own. Coin star charges a whopping fee to give green for silver.

I will have to tell you a great story about my parent's wee house.

The state of Virginia took it (along with her beautiful magnolia tree) by eminent domain.

My oldest sister simply bought it back from the state and moved it to the other side of the highway and used it as rental property. She paid less than the state paid for the cottage and came out in the long run by charging a hefty rental. Clever woman, my sister.
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BumbleBeeBoogie
 
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Reply Wed 10 Aug, 2005 11:25 am
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Letty
 
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Reply Wed 10 Aug, 2005 06:04 pm
and then, Set. There's this one:

by: Joyce Kilmer (1886-1918)

Whenever I walk to Suffern along the Erie track
I go by a poor old farmhouse with its shingles broken and black.
I suppose I've passed it a hundred times, but I always stop for a minute
And look at the house, the tragic house, the house with nobody in it.

I never have seen a haunted house, but I hear there are such things;
That they hold the talk of spirits, their mirth and sorrowings.
I know this house isn't haunted, and I wish it were, I do;
For it wouldn't be so lonely if it had a ghost or two.

This house on the road to Suffern needs a dozen panes of glass,
And somebody ought to weed the walk and take a scythe to the grass.
It needs new paint and shingles, and the vines should be trimmed and tied;
But what it needs the most of all is some people living inside.

If I had a lot of money and all my debts were paid
I'd put a gang of men to work with brush and saw and spade.
I'd buy that place and fix it up the way it used to be
And I'd find some people who wanted a home and give it to them free.

Now, a new house standing empty, with staring window and door,
Looks idle, perhaps, and foolish, like a hat on its block in the store.
But there's nothing mournful about it; it cannot be sad and lone
For the lack of something within it that it has never known.

But a house that has done what a house should do, a house that has sheltered life,
That has put its loving wooden arms around a man and his wife,
A house that has echoed a baby's laugh and held up his stumbling feet,
Is the saddest sight, when it's left alone, that ever your eyes could meet.

So whenever I go to Suffern along the Erie track
I never go by the empty house without stopping and looking back,
Yet it hurts me to look at the crumbling roof and the shutters fallen apart,
For I can't help thinking the poor old house is a house with a broken heart.

I don't know about you folks, but as a kid empty houses used to fascinate me to no end. In a way, I hoped they would be haunted, and then afraid that they would be.
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djjd62
 
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Reply Wed 10 Aug, 2005 06:10 pm
tom waits wrote a song, that is very much like your poem letty

House Where Nobody Lives
Tom Waits

There's a house on my block
That's abandoned and cold
Folks moved out of it a
Long time ago
And they took all their things
And they never came back
Looks like it's haunted
With the windows all cracked
And everyone call it
The house, the house where
Nobody lives
Once it held laughter
Once it held dreams
Did they throw it away
Did they know what it means
Did someone's heart break
Or did someone do somebody wrong?
Well the paint was all cracked
It was peeled off of the wood
Papers were stacked on the porch
Where I stood
And the weeds had grown up
Just as high as the door
There were birds in the chimney
And an old chest of drawers
Looks like no one will ever
Come back to the
House were nobody lives
Once it held laughter
Once it held dreams
Did they throw it away
Did they know what it means
Did someone's heart break
Or did someone do someone wrong?
So if you find someone
Someone to have, someone to hold
Don't trade it for silver
Don't trade it for gold
I have all of life's treasures
And they are fine and they are good
They remind me that houses
Are just made of wood
What makes a house grand
Ain't the roof or the doors
If there's love in a house
It's a palace for sure
Without love...
It ain't nothin but a house
A house where nobody lives
Without love it ain't nothin
But a house, a house where
Nobody lives.
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djjd62
 
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Reply Wed 10 Aug, 2005 06:12 pm
and from the same album one more house song

Come on up to the House
Tom Waits

Well the moon is broken
And the sky is cracked
Come on up to the house
The only things that you can see
Is all that you lack
Come on up to the house

All your cryin don't do no good
Come on up to the house
Come down off the cross
We can use the wood
Come on up to the house

CHORUS
Come on up to the house
Come on up to the house
The world is not my home
I'm just a passin' thru
Come on up to the house

There's no light in the tunnel
No irons in the fire
Come on up to the house
And your singin lead soprano
In a junkman's choir
You gotta come on up to the house

Does life seem nasty, brutish and short
Come on up to the house
The seas are stormy
And you can't find no port
Come on up to the house
There's nothin in the world

(Chorus)
there's nothin in the world
that you can do
you gotta come on up to the house
and you been whipped by the forces
that are inside you
come on up to the house
well you're high on top
of your mountain of woe
come on up to the house
well you know you should surrender
but you can't let go
you gotta come on up to the house
(Chorus)
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