@blurr123,
Women are just like men. They need sex. The difference is that as time goes by their value decreases, but ours increases. Because men will often save, invest, and attempting to make more business at some point. Women will often have children and that is it for them.
The only power that any girl ever had over me is that I know them. I have ran into girls from highschool who I know and they know but I shy away because I know why they look at me now.
Every able bodied man has the ability to make himself more valuable, work long hours, and actually live way more comfortable then any woman.
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If some girl talked to me, I would go for it. I have had girls I met emailing to hang out with them, girls I met from working towards my major, and my goals ( work wise ). I have had girls from the office I worked ( terrible job to clear my debt and buy tools ), at even call me, to find out how I was.
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If you sleep with somebody, it is very much like entering into a type of binding agreement. This is from religion. Beyond that some people who wants to connect with people might just wants to associate with them.
Another problem with associating with the opposite sex. Many gals like many guys will literally hang on to each others numbers, just to poke fun at such people. That being said various opportunities to be met. People will sometimes go down the grape vine of people to find somebody to associate with.
Like my favorite comic book artist, "Rob Scharob" was a graphic designer in college, was dating a model in college, and this girlfriend of his even got Doug Tanapel kicked out of a bar/club because he was under aged. Rob at the time was doing stand-up comedy on stage "for fun and some cash I guess" and despite finding opportunity as an illustrator when his girlfriend left him because "If I am with you how would I find my soul-mate", it devastated him. Him and Tanapel stuck together working on internet-tv "Channel101", cross-dressing stage comedy, meeting Sarah Silverman down the road.
Eventually he did meet somebody working with various acting majors, students, wanna-be. That person eventually did become his new girlfriend. However that was like years. ( I mean years ). He married her "eventually".
She is literally half his age, and by all means way more fruitful then the so called model he was with back in his late college years.
The point I am trying to make is that we have to try and try and keep on trying till we "conquer our beasts", or aka "becoming men" or aka "mastering etc".
Yes "nobody can not do it alone". I discovered being outside rather then with my own work, I find that associating with the opposite sex, makes me feel more complete and real.
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Your divorced and you are 60. That is my dads age. Point being is that women
no matter what age will always have men down the grape vine. Your one of them.
My viewpoint of you is the guy in your age range ( who web page I ran into ), where he showed off his old wife ( with the ugly flower hat, and wrinkled/deflated face, ) and now he is on a boat ( his boat probably a 60 footer ??? ) partying with 20's yo's.
Just as with Rob, or the fellow I mentioned "the grass" is always greener, but you have to work for it.