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Thu 16 Jun, 2022 08:43 am
At the risk of sounding ridiculous, but wanting to be honest, I will relate what is troubling me. I'm not young, but for some reason wanted to buy sexy underwear, maybe to tease my wife. I found myself drawn to the photos of models wearing the briefs. This was followed by searches for nude men exhibiting their assets at full attention. One photo in particular of a very muscular man with a tremendous erection drives me crazy and leads me to fantasies about worshiping that beautiful organ. However, when I look at men anywhere, in any situation, I really don't find myself attracted to any (although I don't rule that out), and I still love beautiful female derrieres. This is confusing and troubling because I keep returning to that one photo. Do you think that this is simply misdirected self-love, with these models serving as my double? I would appreciate sincere opinions, given that I am serious. Please, no jokes or flippant responses.
@DesmoMark,
Relax - It’s not unusual to be turned on by pictures of erections, boobs, butts, legs, etc etc., no matter the gender of the person.
You may be projecting yourself as being that person , which may be exciting you - OR you may be getting turned on sexually by what you saw. Who knows?
If this is causing you a lot of anxiety perhaps you should go and talk with a counselor who can help you sort it out. In the meantime any thoughts that you may have can be fleeting, or they can consume your whole day. You decide how much time you want to give these thought in your head.
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