Advice on wanting out of marriage with a dog involved

Several years ago, I dated a guy who "shared custody" (if you will) with his ex. They had 2 cocker spaniels, who IIRC were from the same litter. She kept one, he kept the other, and they would watch the other's dog when one or the other of them went out of town. It was amicable and the dogs got to see each other at times.

I don't know if it was in writing or even a part of their divorce agreement.

But there's no reason why something like this can't be a part of yours, particularly if you stay in the area for at least a few years after your divorce is final.

E.g. you get to keep Shep (or whatever the pup's name is) for most of the year but your ex takes care of Shep when you're out or maybe you hand over Shep for a few months so they can spend some time together. She may or may not go with it, and it may or may not work, but there's no way you'll know unless you try something like that.

I would actually get your father and mother to hang around the house. That being said you might want to leave a couple of hidden camera on you guys

This Guy had a son who went out of his way to do things for this woman he has kids with. One time she went out in the snow for him, and something happen ( accident ). The in-law came and rub it in his face.

Guy I am talking about ( the father ) asked the in-law "did ____ tell you to go outside, and did _____ say to do _____" the answer was no and he then said "Please step away from my son"

Point I am saying is that you may not be at fault and if you had a parent who actually was observant around I am sure she would not say anything at all. Parents jobs never ends. They are psychologists, referee, and more. That is what you need.

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Again this is a classic case of "I need an in-law with me right now". Like in the "Honey Mooners" or "Lucy Show". They had the Mother-in-law or the Father-in-law in the house/apartment hanging out with keys, etc all the time. Or they lived inside the parents house like in "Tidus.

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I love my dog too but the sad reality is that dogs years pass by so fast and their health can be costly. So you rather by a man alone with a dog paying medical bills to lying vet never knowing if your being discriminated or not then do so, because it will happen one day. That day is near.

I assume you guys have sex, but I guess that does not matter after awhile. It is just a need like shaking hands.