child support after retirement

Every state is different. You very definitely need a lawyer.

You are now paying support for two children both over the age of 30? You should have gotten that lawyer a long time ago.

When you have physical custody of your children, why would you pay child support to your wife? It is her who should have paid you. Child support ends
either when the kids are 21 years old or finished with their education.

Your children are adults and over the age of 30 - no child support needed and if you paid child support to you ex wife for all these years, at least your children should have had the decency and told you to stop.

By all means go ahead and stop immediately. Actually, you could ask for a refund, but I doubt they would pay you back.

You are a good man, but don't be a sucker now!

agreed if I were in this situation - I would have just stopped the payments when the reached the age of 21 (guessing that was supposed to be the cutoff date) - if anyone came after to you - all you would need to show you did not need to pay any longer was their birth certificate.

Just stop paying - I don't this ex-wife or anyone will come after you seeing you have paying what 10 years or so more than you were supposed to? If they come after you then say, hey wait I wasn't supposed to pay for these years - I am going to counter you all and ask for my money back + interest.

That would likely shut them up.

thanks for all your response, I am guessing I will need a lawyer for this, I really appreciate it , thanks