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Tue 17 May, 2022 11:48 am
Hi Everyone, Peter here. I am new to the forum, so maybe I should introduce myself.
I am Peter - 41 years old; I have a partner of 20+ years. I am versatile – (in case that is of question for some). I live in Florida; I love to binge-watching shows on Netflix, playing with my beautiful German shepherd, and spending time with my partner. I am genuinely a very happy person.
I write this post as an inquiry if I may. I am curious about something, I am curious as to a lifestyle of a man. A gay man perhaps, who is interested in straight acting dudes. I do not have intention s to cheat on my partner at all, I am just curious about a concept.
Me, personally, I like straight acting men. As friends, and as close friends. Here is the thing, my mindset is this: a guy/dude regardless of self-identifying labels of sexual preference, is a guy. He does what guys do. And by that I mean, wakes up in the morning, maybe farts, goes to the kitchen to make coffee, reflects on the day coming up, doesn’t care about top/bottom at that moment, just does what any normal man would do. He might not even think about sex that the entire day. He is, first and foremost a man.
So, in an effort to not beat around the bush, are there men out there, who are like this or similar, who do not care about sexual preference at heart, but are gay or bi, that just, first and foremost want to achieve their goals without putting labels on things?
I’m sure there are. I just want to maybe, hear from a few.
Guys, what are your goals when you wake up in the morning? Do you feel anything like I do?
I am sure I am thinking of this in a weird way, my interactions with other gay men have always been that of, “hey, are you T or B? age?”.