sister and wife issues????

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hi my sister is getting married and she lives in my home with my wife and dad. she has not been involving my wife or introducing her to the guy side yet she had introduced everyone else like my sisters. She is inviting the guy side over and she has asked my sister who lives in other home to coordinate the details like date and time. my wife tells me she is pissed off that she has not let her talk to guy side for cooridnating these details. she said she wont cook anything for them because she feels like she is a servant. when i ask my sisters to please involve her. they get upset at me saying that sister in law dont get involved in these things. are they right or is my wife right?

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@mac2cd,

If sisters in law "don't get involved", then your wife shouldn't have to cook. It's an all or nothing proposition. Either she's involved in the planning so she knows what to cook and has input in that. Or she's not involved in the planning and is off the hook when it comes to making food.

Your wife lives in the same house as your sister. She (your wife) has every right to be at home when your future BIL's side is over, and can talk to them directly.

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@jespah,

I'm an inclusive person, but not everyone is, so if I were your wife, I wouldn't take it personally. Unless, of course, they don't like each other or know each other very well. It's a little surprising she's so exclusive about this since she's introducing a new member of the family. But please tell your wife it's all about your sister(s) and not about her. It's a little trivial when you put it in perspective. Who knows? Your new BIL could meet your wife and they could have a fantastic relationship.

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It's this family's deal.

But on this one detail they are wrong. Sis in law IS family. She should smile gracefully and be the adult but not allowing it to be an issue during a wedding season. They'll be calling on her.

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