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Wed 17 Nov, 2021 10:21 am
Hey there, so this is my first post here so please go easy on me lol. The thing is, im 21(male) and this weekend ill be home alone. I was thinking to ask a girl to come over, but i realize i dont have many girl friends lol. Ive never had a gf, and always spent the weekends by myself(i have male friends and yes we used to hang out, but they are like more in the "lets go to the club" mood rather than the "lets hang out" mood, which is sad cause i dont like going to clubs). So i thought it would be a game changer if i could bring a girl to my house, see what happens. My girl friends (classmates) from high school have boyfriends or are out of town. the only option i have left is facebook, instagram or something like that. yes tinder is another option, but i am not brad pitt so, ill pass that. i want to know what you guys think, what should i do or how can i handle this. what would you guys do?, kind of tired to playing videogames till 4 am yk. this topic is probably out of the loop of this love theme here but idk, couldnt find a better place to write this stuff down. oh i also go to swimming class and theres this girl(thing is shes older, like 40 or 36) that maybe stares at me way to often during class. so yea thats about it, love to read your replies, c ya.
@lonelyStoner,
I'm not sure how many people would feel comfortable going into someone's house without knowing them all that well. And I certainly do not advise bringing a one-night-stand into your parent's home.
The best solution is to make friends and once you know them and they know you better, invite them over.
Sorry, this weekend just may be just home alone.
@lonelyStoner,
Instead why don't you think of other things to do besides to a club....comedy show, bowling, indoor rock wall climbing, Escape room, sports event something like that.. Just thinking of things that my 22 year old daughter has done.
You might try enrolling in a community college art course of some type, a hands-on course like pottery or metal work or sketching or something. A lot of them have non-credit courses, so you don't have to worry about a grade or anything.
You can interact with people a lot and you might meet somebody there.
Nothing wrong with having someone over. Make dinner ( you CAN do that, can’t you - tacos , subs, or something?) Maybe having a small group over is a better idea.
What does it mean that you want to ask someone “ over”? Are you hoping to line up a romantic evening? You have a lot to do before it comes to that.
Yes, maybe you need to do something besides playing video games all the time until 4 AM. You have a lot of socializing skills that you need to learn.
@PUNKEY,
thanks for the replies.
well yea i can cook, and yes the idea is having dinner.
"What does it mean that you want to ask someone “ over”? Are you hoping to line up a romantic evening? You have a lot to do before it comes to that."
maybe not if i know the other person is in the same mood as me. romantic and stuff.
@lonelyStoner,
You have someone over, and maybe something develops. And, maybe it doesn't.
Get out the matches and the lighter fluid, get into the liquor cabinet.
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