Woman in love with younger women

Assuming this woman is at least 18 puts you at age 36, although I suspect you saw 36 a while ago.

Here's the truth about the universe.

You don't have to give a damn about what your family says, wants, or does.

You say they're homophobic.

So, why would the approval of bigots ever matter to you?

Do whatever you want with whomever you want but do approach first things first. Get out of one relationship and let the dust settle before you plow ahead into another. If he is so kind, why not let him off the hook and end it properly. Give him the chance to find his happiness, too.

I'm actually older and she's in early 20s. I appreciate the advice and your correct. Bless

Thank you for advice