I asked my crush out

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This monday i asked my crush out through text and i don't know if she actually wants to go out with me. She replied "ehy hi! i'll let you know asap, i've got plenty of things to do recently". So i tried to ask her if she is free next week and she told me "i'll see what i can do". And i didn't reply to this text. I thought that she was making up excuses but her bestfriend told me that she is moving out in about two weeks so she is very busy. I asked her if my crush told her something about me and she told me that she knew i texted her but she didn't know if my crush actually wants to go out with me. I want to text her again next monday and ask if she's free (idk maybe asking her "ehy so are you free this week?" but i'm kinda scared. Should i?

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If you had just done it (texted or called her again) on your own...it would have been fine. And you would almost certainly have your answer.

Since you are nervous enough about the move to actually asking strangers about making it...chances are you are better off just letting things lie for a while...a weeks, two weeks, or so...and then going back. If she contacts you before you make the move...BINGO. If not, you can give it one more shot.

Frankly, it sounds to me like a rejection. If it weren't, it would have included a comment of the "can I get a rain check on that" sort.

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@Frank Apisa,

i'm not scared of texting her or anything, i've already done it once i can do it again, but i'm scared of the fact that i don't know if she's being honest with me or not. Her bestfriend (we are pretty close friends) told me that she doesn't always reply to guys that text her and that she isn't making up excuses, cause she is really busy these days, but i'm still scared that my crush may just be rejecting me in a "soft" way. I guess i'll just wait till monday, ask her again and hope to get the best answer i could possibly get

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@Mattia Seth,

Why don’t you ask her if she’d like help with her moving like lifting boxes or carrying things or delivering to her new place. Don’t try to make this a date. Just be a friend. Just ask her if there’s anything that she needs to have done with her moving.

She may be really busy and not want to start up anything social. Moving is really very stressful. You need to be sensitive to that.

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