@InfraBlue,
True... but we do tend to label, which I am very much against. Who cares if it was your 'Asian' neighbour, or 'skinny friend' or 'adopted' daughter? If those labels aren't germane, they're offensive to me. And sometimes when we unconsciously label something (she's a bitch vs she's being bitchy), that label sticks (Oh, I heard she was a bitch) and it's very hard to undo.
Back to the topic, though:
The OP seems to think she is or has comphet. She clearly stated she prefers women to men so where does the comphet come into it? See, I see that as her labelling herself, giving her one more thing to worry about. She's apparently struggling with it.