@Snowed,
Since you won't read that link I sent you, the Five Languages (or Expressions) of Love are below. These are the five different ways people like to give and receive love.
1. Words of affirmation. "You look great in that colour." "That was a lovely meal, thank you."
2. Quality time together. "Want to come with me to ....?" "Let's go for a walk." "Can I come over and visit with you?"
3. Giving and receiving gifts, whether it's tangible or not. "Thanks for taking the dog to the vet - I got such a lot of work done!" "I saw this at a store and thought of you - I hope it fits." "You've got a flat tire - I'll fix it for you."
4. Acts of service. "I'd be happy to take you to the airport." "Your lawns needs a mow - I'll do it for you." "I've ironed all your shirts so now you're good to go."
5. Physical touch. This could be a hug, kiss, caress, foot rub, massage, etc.
Everyone seems to gravitate to two main ones. Once you figure out how HE likes to be shown, you basically show him that way. That's what he understands. It's like a language.
And once you figure out how YOU like to be shown, you can let him know how HE can show YOU love.
You might want to read this together. But the important thing is that you understand it's not that he doesn't love you - he's just speaking a different language.