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Tue 20 Oct, 2020 07:05 pm
parisiangurl said:
10-16-2020 10:13 PM
Hi I meant this guy last month and we went out to eat. We were just hanging out and having conversation. I am 49 yrs old woman and he is 33yrs old. We had a good time. Anyway I had sex with him after we went out that day to eat. We have had sex a few times now. I have started to get feelings for him. He has made comments lately about that he is happy that I am into him. He doesn't want me having sex with anyone else. After the first time we were together he told me that I satisfied him and not to worry about him having sex with anyone else. Last time we were together he was more passionate about the sex. Played love songs on his guitar but made the comment under his breath about it being love songs and I didn't realize it. My problem is the last time we were together it was really good the kissing and sex. I heard him say under his breath that we could have something but I smoke cigarettesand also our age difference he was thinking out loud. He has smoked a cigarette with me a couple of times even though he doesn't like it. And this last time he kept asking me for cigarettes too. But then he was saying he didn't want anything serious to me and did not want to date because he thinks you can't ever please a woman. He said we were bonding. Not sure what to think but I have feeling for him. We have a lot in common too in our beliefs and views about life. Is he interested in more than sex and fun with me? Maybe I could change his mind?
@parisiangurl,
You're in an FWB "relationship". Try not to take it too seriously.
He wants me to be into him but wants to not date or get serious with anyone. I will be fun to be around the next time we get together. Even though I have feelings for him. Is it possible that he likes my physical energy and I give him comfort that way? I will not tell him how I feel have no intentions of letting him know that I feel serious right now. I will only smoke if he says it's ok though. He doesn't like it but we shared a smoke and he made a remark it was nice both of our mouths on the cigarette. You can understand why I get mixed message with that. I just wish he wouldn't talk about bonding and say I am only into him for sex. What do I say to him when he takes a cheap shot that I am only into him for the sex? Plus I have not heard from him in 5 days either ugh
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Update I saw him on Thursday. He told me that he has feelings for me but he doesn't like it. Those were his exact words. When he dropped me off on Friday he told me that we would see each other Wednesday which is today. Also when I saw him last Thursday he asked me what I would do if we were together everyday. I told him it would be good thing and we would not end up bad like his other relationships. Seems like he is thinking about more than sex with me right?
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