@Sfgyll,
The word you're looking for is spare. And I won't.
I am not a doctor, and I bet dollars to doughnuts that you aren't, either. Everything you've written screams anxiety and nothing else.
Will you continue to take tests until they come up inconclusive again, just to justify your fear?
Not trusting the results unless they say what you want them to is the antithesis of science and medicine.
Go to your doctor, and I mean your primary care physician and not some clinic. Talk to him or her about your symptoms and your concerns. And ask about what happens to people who really do have untreated HIV for over 2 1/2 years.
See, I lived through that time, and I remember it well.
In the 1980s, before there were any HIV medications, people who had untreated HIV for over 2 1/2 years had been dead for 1 of those years.