Is my boyfriend a hypocrite and very wrong?

So, recently I haven’t been wanting to have relations because of stress and I don’t feel like we don’t get as intimate as we used to. It’s like the love in it is missing. To me from him. All he wants is things done to him and I little done to me. I’m satisfied every blue moon but I don’t say anything anymore. I told him before and he was hurt and said something like how I need to figure out what I want or something. Basically nothing changed. So now I’ve been telling him no. So the most recent situation was that me and him stayed up and watched a movie. I wanted to be intimate but he wanted to watch the movie. So I understood and relaxed. It’s 3:00am now and we’re in bed. We was ready but I told him it was late and I wanted to just chill tonight. I didn’t want to sleep my second day off away. And, honestly he would have just asked me to touch him and I didn’t feel like being in control that’s literally all he wants. He was mad I changed my mind. He said it was corny. So he went to the bathroom to handle his business and came back and didn’t hold me or anything. So I scooted away and that’s how our night ended. I think he’s a hypocrite because he sat here in my face and said I can say no if I don’t want to and said he can be pushy. Even apologized. Nothing changed. What should I do?