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Im married to a man But i met this amazing bestfriend and we shared 7 yrs together as friends We did everything but oral n sex Hubby too no oral no sex So am i concerned bi cuz theres only one man in my life And yes he will join if it works that way I want him to enjoy too So help me by takin me step by step guide to What kinda woman relationship i want Ive nevet ben intaminte with a woman So idk help Always kinda knew i could love deep for a woman at same time being in a comitted marriage So idk what thats all called So new Came out to hubby in Oct 19