@chai2,
Quote:Generally I find people who tell me to lighten up about something I've given thought to, have their heads up their ass.
I think this has a lot to do with whether the children in question are yours.
1. If someone comments on my kids... "Oh my Gawd! How could you let your kids have fake candy pills?!". My reaction is likely to be some form of the phrase "Buzz Off! and take care of your own kids". (The exact strength of this response will likely be determined by social factors and how upset I am by my latest interaction with a Bernie supporter).
2. If someone comments on their own kids... "I don't feel comfortable with little Johnny seeing pills made out of candy", I am likely to respect them. Different parents have different parenting styles and different kids have different needs. To be honest, I might entertain a passing judgmental thought... but I will keep it to myself because frankly this is none of my business.
3. I suppose this is a general case "Oh No! This might hurt the children". This is a case for debate, but in truth lumping together all children doesn't make much sense. I am happy to entertain this as a hypothetical discussion. But it doesn't mean that much.
There is nothing more annoying than being judged for your parenting choices by someone who doesn't themselves have kids.