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Life coach issues

 
 
Mickd
 
Reply Mon 13 Jan, 2020 07:53 am
My wife used a life coach since last year . She seems to get involved more and more, doing more open meditations , changing her way of seeing life , all her spare time is with the coach / group therapy. This become very expensive and I cannot dissuade or even mentioned any negativity about it . It is taking me to a hight level of stress as she control my daily life , finance and all . Don’t know what to do next . Anybody have had this situation ?
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Linkat
 
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Reply Mon 13 Jan, 2020 03:35 pm
@Mickd,
I would do a search for this "life coach" and make sure this person/group is legit.

Also - what was the purpose of going to a life coach? Is your wife getting the results/meeting the goals she wanted?

If anything above is a red flag - then you have facts that you can show her. If she is getting out of this life coach what she expected - then I would make sure she is paying for this expensive treatment.

Another way to show her how expensive it is - is to make a budget of all your expenses including the payments involving this group --- seeing it in black and white money-wise should prove to both of you if this is a feasible expense. If it is really causing issues with finances - then ask her how this can be paid for? Is there a way she can cut back on meetings, try to work together to get a solution - whoever the life coach is one would think would include discussions on how live within your means as well - that is part of life.
Mickd
 
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Reply Wed 22 Jan, 2020 08:48 am
@Linkat,
After discussing this life coach matters with my wife, she told me that she lied to me , it wasn’t a life coach but a " spiritual stories teller " that make her believe that she has inner power that with her help and time , very expensive, will harness this power and heal and make the world a better place .
My wife is stubborn, very smart , can win any arguments she faced , I don’t know what to do , I feel that we are getting away from each other .
Thanks for your first response.
engineer
 
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Reply Wed 22 Jan, 2020 08:56 am
@Mickd,
I think you need to lay out a budget. Household expenses are X, saving for the future is Y, what is left over can be used for hobbies. She can have whatever hobbies she likes (as can you) but can't exceed Z dollars.
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Linkat
 
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Reply Wed 22 Jan, 2020 06:04 pm
@Mickd,
Do you have this "coach's" name - do I search - for him/her - sounds like a scam and maybe you can get can some solid proof.
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