@Linkat,
After discussing this life coach matters with my wife, she told me that she lied to me , it wasn’t a life coach but a " spiritual stories teller " that make her believe that she has inner power that with her help and time , very expensive, will harness this power and heal and make the world a better place .
My wife is stubborn, very smart , can win any arguments she faced , I don’t know what to do , I feel that we are getting away from each other .
Thanks for your first response.