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Tue 7 Jan, 2020 11:36 am
My husband is constantly horny but I seem to have very little drive. I almost never tell him no but he wants me to initiate more and has begun to just watch porn and beat off instead of trying to initiate. I am taking medication to try and revive my sex drive but that isn't the end of the problem. When I do initiate, I often do not climax because he rarely last longer than 2-5 minutes. This is a big ego problem for him but I have no idea how to tell him part of the reason the I don't initiate is because it always leads to disappointment for me. I have seen an increase in my sex drive since taking the medication but that seems to just make the issue worse because I want to have a good experience and now it's worse that I don't. Any advice would be greatly appreciated.
@bluemamma915,
Lots of women (lots and lots!) don't orgasm from intercourse alone. Doesn't matter how long the guy lasts, BTW.
So, what to do? Have fun with foreplay and even toys if you like.
@bluemamma915,
Two to five minutes? How old are the two of you?