Leaving me on a dead end.

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I have this crush and he is a year younger than me. I am going to be a freshman next year so we will be in different schools. I asked a few friends, what I should do and they said tell him how I feel. So I texted him 5 days ago. I said
"Hey, I have to tell you something but, you have to promise to tell me these three things because you may not talk to me ever again( I listed the three things but, they would take too much explanation) He hasn't responded. I have no clue if he has read it because I own a samsung and I don't know what to do. Advice?

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@boredgurl04,

Sounds harsh, but if you asked me to give you three answers before you told me what was on your mind, I don't believe I would bother to answer, either.

Perhaps your crush enjoys playing games, but not everybody does.

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@roger,

The three things weren't exactly questions but, more like things I wanted to keep up with at my old school. like when the musical was and how the new music teacher was compared to the old one. He is really the only one who I have a connection with at my old school so, I wanted to know these things and I couldn't ask anyone else.

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@boredgurl04,

boredgurl04 wrote:

I am going to be a freshman next year so we will be in different schools.

A freshman in what?
High school?
College?

In any event, that was a really silly text on your part.

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@chai2,

Heavy sigh....................

Oh, and how much does air weigh?

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There was nothing wrong with asking three questions about school. It was a good way to start a conversation. But they may have overwhelmed him.

If you don’t hear from him, call him. There may even be a phone connection issue.

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@chai2,

freshman in high school. I felt it was important because, it was a reason that my friends said to tell him how I feel.

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@boredgurl04,

Well, your friends were wrong. Your friends I assume are also 12 or 13 year olds?

You were very silly for making a big deal of "promise me you'll tell me this", as if it were some earth shaking information you required.
At your age, there is a big temptation, especially among girls, to make everything a big drama.

Better would have been to keep it loose, as in "Hi, wanna go to Burger King with me?" or something like that. Then the 2 of you can talk face to face.

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@boredgurl04,

Texting is really impersonal. If you really wanted to confront him about your feelings towards him and his possible feelings towards you? You'd ask him face to face (as scary as that maybe to you now).

With texting him these three things? You gave him a backdoor to not respond if he chooses.

And what if his phone was dead or lost and he actually didn't get your text in the first place? That's a lost opportunity for both of you and you're wrongfully condemning him for naught.

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