the right guy

I'm married to him.

I also met him when I was in my late 20s, and I actively sought him.

u know me..its either jj or ben.....i still cant get over how soft bens hair looks...lmfao..

Ha - mine is the opposite (at least how I met him).

I'm married to him.

I met him in my early 30s when I was out just having fun - not interested in long term relationship - in other words I was not actively searching for anyone.

This after dating someone for over 8 years...for me it was when I least expected it.

So it can happen under almost any circumstance at any time.

Exactly - everyone's got their own path.