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Sun 28 Apr, 2019 12:38 pm
He is always complaining about things I do. If I want attention he complains, if I try to hug or kiss him he complains. If I say anything sexual or talk about sexual things we have done he complains. Hes always saying how clingy I am and ask why i can't just leave him alone.. he barely ever wants to have sex, he will tell me no over and over but as soon as he wants to he expects me to just have sex with him. The more he acts like this the more I think about leaving. I'm so tired of being taken for granted.
Anyone have advice?
@E1234,
When's the last time he had a thorough physical? Is this a change in behavior, or has he always been like this, and you're just sick of it?
@jespah,
He probably hasn't had a thorough physical since 2013 in the military. He didn't act like this when I first met him
@jespah,
We've been married 2 years now
@E1234,
Aha. I'm no doctor but you should get him to one. Maybe it's nothing, but it would be an occasion to open a dialogue if nothing else.
@jespah,
What are you thinking it could be?
@E1234,
Well, like I said, I'm not a doctor. But behavioral changes can be signs of illness. Please don't panic, thinking every little mood swing is cancer or anything. Let a doctor examine him and tell you.