Husband went on a stag do recently and come back with bruising (loads of small roundish bruises on his buttocks a horizontal oval bruise groin area and bruised lines on the back of his legs) thought they looked bad but never give much thought to it as he showed me a video of him drunk falling asleep one night that his mate had filmed in a club. Had sex which was different to normal last night I mean rougher sex and afterwards I had a flash back grabbing his buttocks but then had a flash back of the bruising on his buttocks from the return of the stag do and they were thinking back finger tip size bruising also the groin bruise looked like the shape of a mouth there were also two identical lines underneath each other on his legs. I told him about my flash back after thinking about the sex we had just had and he said he doesn't remember getting a hard on for the two days he was there but then openly admits he doesn't remember both nights as he was drunk. I'm thinking he had sex with someone but he won't admit it am I paranoid?
Him getting blackout drunk is concerning all by itself. How's about if he asks his pal (I mean the guy who paid for everything) just what was on the final bill?
I agree with you re drinking to blackout not sure how to approach it again without being told I'm paranoid I'm a big believer of gut instinct. The fact that when I did speak to him he denied it but couldn't get of the room quick enough and after 5 minutes I followed him up to bed he started saying that he doesn't remember much literally as soon as I walked in the bedroom. Iike i had give him time to get his thoughts or response together and his response didn't really reassure me in fact it made matters worse as when I walked into the bedroom he just started saying when I was in Hamburg the earlier conversation that I had i decided to believe him. Thank you for responding its actually the first time I've used a forum.
Thank you for responding its actually the first time I've used a forum.
If I may, I think you need advice from people you know care for you. This not the the place to get it.
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mystikmind
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Sun 7 Apr, 2019 11:38 pm
@Mrscb53dnb,
Stag night? Oh my, well that certainly makes the imagination run wild!
But honestly, if i was in your position i would be thinking "whatever it was, i dont want to know" and then never let them go on another stag night ever again!