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Am I bisexual?

 
 
Reply Wed 3 Apr, 2019 12:07 pm
I'm a 14 year old boy and I think I might be bisexual. All my life I've been attracted to girls sexually and romantically but about two years ago I found out that I was aroused by looking at a penis. At that time I didn't really give it much thought and I thought it was just a phase, but since then I sometimes have gay dreams and stuff, although it's pretty rare. I started really questioning my sexuality about 2 months ago or so and I've been like this since then. When I do look at a penis (I'm sorry for being so blunt and specific) I only get slightly aroused, not enough to make me fully, uhm, erect. Sometimes it even turns me off and it's like my gayness switches on and off constantly. A few weeks after all this doubt I kinda had a small crush on my best friend, who is a male. I don't know if I could call it a crush, since I wasn't like in love with him and I didn't really want to date him at all or anything like that. It passed after like 5 days and then out of nowhere I started finding males attractive. Dudes I thought were ugly af now were kinda attractive to me. But then there's another thing, I don't really wanna kiss a dude or date one or anything like that, when I think about it it turns me off and is just a big ew for me. And for example, if I think about a pp it turns me on, but if I were to actually do anything sexual with a male it turns me off completely (like in a locker room with my classmates if I look at their pps I don't feel anything at all and I don't wanna do anything with them). I have talked to some people about this and some said that it might be hormones and others said that I actually am bisexual. I'm sure that I like girls, but I just don't know if I'm bisexual or not. Helppp
(Btw Idk if this is relevant but when I was like 6 or 7 I had a gay sexual experience but idk. And sorry for making the text so long and so specific.)
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jespah
 
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Reply Wed 3 Apr, 2019 01:07 pm
@DankSquido,
You're ... a 14 year old boy.

Your hormones are in overdrive and your life is not settled yet.

Are you bi? Yes. No. Maybe.

So wait and see. You don't need a label yet, or ever.
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mystikmind
 
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Reply Thu 4 Apr, 2019 10:44 pm
@DankSquido,
An erect penis can be a turn on to a heterosexual male, simply because it is something you associate with sex.... Where there is smoke, perhaps there is fire? You dont want the smoke, but its exciting to see if you love fire! And then there is that side of you that says "i want to be the one doing what he is doing"!
And especially when it comes to porn, those penises are usually on the larger side, and when you see one in action, you naturally think "I WANT DAT!"

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